Resources

Healthy Sexuality for Christians

Breaking Free Book

Get a FREE chapter from Russell Willingham’s book 
Breaking Free: Understanding Sexual Addiction & the Healing Power of Jesus

Breaking Free Small Group Video Series

13 small-group sessions designed to get men talking honestly. Study includes video, workbook and leaders resources.

Pastoral Resources

Sermon outlines and notes to be used by anyone wishing to present a helpful message on t he subject of biblical sexuality.

Building Healthy Marriages

Marriage Matrix Video Series

6 small-group sessions designed for couples or individuals. Study includes video, workbook and leaders resources.

Educational Resources

Disclosure

Why marital disclosure is crucial but marital
interrogation will destroy you and your spouse

Voices

Listening to the right voice

God-Image

Our faulty God-image: secret barrier to healing

Accountability

The Nitty-Gritty of Accountability

Books

Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal, Barbara Steffens, Ph.D. and Marsha Means, M.A.

Shattered Vows, Deborah Laaser

Mending a Shattered Heart, Stefanie Carnes, Ph.D.

11 Most Common Betrayal Trauma Responses*

  1. Overwhelming emotions
  2. Unusual/uncharacteristic behaviors
  3. Sleep difficulties– too much/too little
  4. ‘Brain fog’– inability to think clearly, memory loss, getting lost easily
  5. Eating problems– inability to eat/overeating
  6. Anxiety/panic attacks
  7. Depression
  8. Rumination/obsessive thoughts and intrusive images/flashbacks
  9. Difficulty caring for self or others
  10. Isolation
  11. Obsessive need to check the internet history, GPS, email accounts, text message history, etc. for signs that the danger is still present

* List taken from www.betrayaltrauma.org

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